I have read lots of your posts now men and this seems to be the major stumbling block for many of you.
I suspect that most women do NOT share our fetish,but, I sincerely believe that MOST women will go along with almost anything for their men if 2 conditions are met:
1) A BIG one: everything else in the relationship is OK. That means she HAS to feel secure about stuff and how you feel about her. (OK stop being sick over there I am serious.) Because if she is NOT happy about the relationship the last thing she is going to want to do is put herself out for YOUR sexual needs.
2) She has to be approached in the right way. This will vary from woman to woman. Sometimes it may be that you have to give her something she wants in return; be prepared for that to be non-sexual like some cupboards fixing or taking her shopping to make her feel good; and you HAVE to do that willingly in a giving way and not expect an immediate return on it. With some other women she may just need wooing, flowers, compliments etc. She will enjoy the attention, and knowing what it is you want, putting on a pair of pantyhose to go to bed in will eventually seem such a little thing to do to keep this attention coming then she WILL do it.
I suspect that most men have pushed it the wrong way and been disappointed by the result. Don't expect her to "catch " your fetish: I think someone either has it or they don't .
ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS:
She (in pantyhose) is your sexual OBJECTIVE not a sex OBJECT.
Hope this helps you guys,
I suspect that most women do NOT share our fetish,but, I sincerely believe that MOST women will go along with almost anything for their men if 2 conditions are met:
1) A BIG one: everything else in the relationship is OK. That means she HAS to feel secure about stuff and how you feel about her. (OK stop being sick over there I am serious.) Because if she is NOT happy about the relationship the last thing she is going to want to do is put herself out for YOUR sexual needs.
2) She has to be approached in the right way. This will vary from woman to woman. Sometimes it may be that you have to give her something she wants in return; be prepared for that to be non-sexual like some cupboards fixing or taking her shopping to make her feel good; and you HAVE to do that willingly in a giving way and not expect an immediate return on it. With some other women she may just need wooing, flowers, compliments etc. She will enjoy the attention, and knowing what it is you want, putting on a pair of pantyhose to go to bed in will eventually seem such a little thing to do to keep this attention coming then she WILL do it.
I suspect that most men have pushed it the wrong way and been disappointed by the result. Don't expect her to "catch " your fetish: I think someone either has it or they don't .
ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS:
She (in pantyhose) is your sexual OBJECTIVE not a sex OBJECT.
Hope this helps you guys,
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